Have you ever found yourself stuck in time and all you see, is people dashing past you, trying to get to their destinations?
Have you ever felt like you have no idea what you have in mind for the future, and you see all your friends already working towards their dream?
Have you ever felt left out, when people around you starts discussing their plans and goals?
Well if you have, then I am here to tell you that it’s okay to feel like you have no clue as to what your purpose is. Because, everything is going to be alright in the end.
When you feel lost in life, not knowing your dreams , your passions, your goals, take some time to do a little bit of soul searching. You can also take some time to get in tune with yourself so that you can figure out what you like and what you like to do. It is normal for us teenagers or young adults to not have our lives figured out yet. Hell, even adults do not even have their own lives figured out yet, so why should we? Everything changes so easily these days , just like the decisions that we make. We may agree on something one moment, but the other, we will disagree. We are fickle-minded in a way, and that is because we are so unsure of what the best course of action to take is. This is also due to us having lack of confidence in ourselves when making a decision. Hence, why we falter when we are asked to make important decisions that could change our lives forevermore.
In this day and age, most people do not think much before doing or saying something. They do not do their research or go around to talk to people to gather enough information in order for them to make a sound decision.
Not to mention, they do not think twice before saying something, which is why words come out all wrong when they talk. Then, when things do go wrong, or at least not how they expected things to have gone, they regret it. They start thinking about what they should have done instead, and that they should not have allowed their emotions to cloud their judgement. This regret lingers and it doesn’t go away, because the decision has already been made. The only option left for them now is to accept the outcomes of their actions or decisions. Accept it and move on. There is no use dwelling in the past, what’s done is done.